Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Lovely Me

I remember when I was a child, I wanted to be someone else. Anybody else but me! Celebrities, classmates, etc. I was not happy with who I was. My skin color was wrong, my hair was the wrong color, damn near everything.I know other kids go through this as well but at the time, I thought I was the only one. I am an adult now, and although I am not 100% happy with myself (yet),I realize there is only one me. I am unique and God created me just how he wanted. I remember years ago, a friend of my family committed suicide because he wasn't happy with the way he looked. At that time, it didn't mean as much to me as it does now. Lately, I realize what a big mistake he made. If he would have held on a little longer,God would have shown him how beautiful he really was. And have you ever noticed the so - called "ugliest" people have the best personalities? (Just putting that out there)So don't let a few pimples or an ugly birthmark get you down. Start looking beyond the surface.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

A friend in need...

When I go out to places like restaurants or department stores,I encounter alot of different people. I try my best to smile and be nice as possible. Although it is not easy as it seems, but I try. I am not opposed to giving change to the homeless or giving money to help kids with their fundraisers. We have to remember, no matter how successful we become, we weren't always that way. Don't be too cute, too rich or too bougie to lend someone a helping hand. You never know when you will need help as well.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Broken Promises

"Promises are like babies. Easy to make. Hard to deliver." People make promises all the time. From the Oval Office to the neighbor next door. The experiences during my life has taught me to never believe someone when they make you a promise. I could be called a pessimist, but I'm sure I am not the only person who feels the same way. We should always keep our word and never make promises we don't intend to keep. It leads to people becoming enemies, broken hearts, and it also ends friendships as well. Don't get me wrong. I have broken my share of promises, but as of late, I have made an internal decision to do better. I will no longer make promises that I know I can't deliver on. So please don't be upset if you ask me for a favor and I say no. I'm just on the road to self improvement and I can't afford to turn back now. And what about you? Are you ready? There is always room for one more. :-)

Thursday, June 17, 2010


Drama is defined as: A way of relating to the world in which a person consistently overreacts to or greatly exaggerates the importance of benign events. I pride myself on being drama free because it is pointless. When I was younger, drama was a way of life, but now that I am pushing -- (lol), I avoid it at all costs. I have a "friend", ( and i use that term lightly),who ALWAYS has some drama going on. If its not relationship issues, its job related. So I ask u this.. At what point do u let s*** go and move on? I know when I come home I like peace and quiet. I refuse to walk around on egg shells. And when i do lose my cool. U know what i do? First I woo sah :-), then I pray about it. It sets me at ease. So I say to you my friend, if you have issues and something is always going wrong. Look within. Maybe its you. I could be wrong, but on my daily quest to find understanding about this crazy thing we call life, I have found this to be true. And if by chance you just CAN NOT live with out drama in your life... Check out one of Tyler Perry's plays. He has enough for all of us.. Lol..

Skinny Jeans ~ Eh...

i am not anti skinny jeans but jeez fellas. must you wear them so tight? i dont wanna see your d*** print or your b***print. lol. i think they look cute on females but men... Eh, not so much. And dont get me started on guys having on colorful jeans with wallet chains. when i was young, (listen to me talking like im old) we never would have worn stuff like that. but style changes with time. so what can u do? i got my 1st pair of skinny jeans a few months back and have not gotten another pair. Not cus i dont like em. i just didnt..smh. I feel no need to explain cus lets be honest folks. its just skinny jeans!! hahaha.. But i plan on buying more and although i prefer not to get a yeast infection when wearing my clothes, i do like to look good.

The Beginning

Welcome to my world. So glad you stopped by. I am new to this blogging thing so please be nice. I plan on updating my blog at least every other day. So many things go on in the course of one day so I might as well talk about it. :-) I hope you have as much enjoyment reading this as I am having making it. Talk to you soon my friends.